If we’re looking for a short and simple answer to this complicated question, the answer would be yes, we do only see what we want to see. Now, my friends, what we’re really talking about here is the perception of our experience. It is important we understand there are many contributing factors to this perception, which gives rise to the fact that it is indeed much more complicated than we realize. If you recall, to a certain extent, we can only interpret our current experience within the context of our past experience, for this is all we know. In that sense, a more accurate and honest question would be, “do we only see what we are able to see”. On the other hand, we must remember that our primary goal here as a human being is to learn how to create what we want and need. In that sense, “do we only see what we would like to see”. As we consider these different perspectives, we see there are two basic factors then that affect the perception of our present experience; what our experience has been in the past, and what we would like it to be now and into the future. Each of these “conditions”, if you will, come with their own set of problems or limitations, as we will see. Let’s take a look.
Ultimately, our goal is to always see our experience accurately, for then we will understand the meaning that is being provided for us. Yes, my friends, there is a purpose to everything! For all of you students out there, we know that in order to work with and understand what our experience is all about, we must first know what the boundaries or parameters are. In this case, we have the past and the future. It is these two extremes within our experience that encourage us to find a middle ground, for the two boundaries will only allow us to see one side. It is in the middle where all opportunity and truth are available. Once we find the middle ground within our experience consistently, we arrive at the point where wholeness can be ours. This is, of course, a true and accurate perception of reality. It brings to us the peace and sense of openness we have been seeking. After all, each of us longs for that one experience when we can take a deep breath and honestly say, “it is done”. I know, I understand, there is nothing left to do! Sound good?
Ok, before we get ahead of ourselves, let’s remember realism and practicality. It’s a lot of hard work to achieve a consistent middle ground. I tell you this, for I am also continuing with the same work as you. I can also say, however, I have experienced a more accurate perception of my experience, and a sense of wholeness and peace many times in my life. You will also have the same with your dedication. A sense of balance comes and goes, this we know. But, when your feet are firmly placed on the path, it doesn’t go so soon! Patience, always patience. If we accept that we’re not quite there yet, we can also know there are tools available to help us achieve a more accurate perception and understanding of our experience, that will indeed create a sense of balance and peace. It is a process.
Before we part ways, a couple of things to think about, posed as three questions. Remember, our goal is to see wholly, for this is the key to a more complete understanding.
Do we only see what we want to see?
The answer here will eventually be no. If we believe our past experience is all there is, we fail to recognize we have only achieved a partial understanding. If we get stuck there, our present experience is unavailable, and then we only have the option to recreate the past in order to be comfortable. There is no learning here. If we remain in this unfortunate place, our perception becomes that of victimhood, for we only see what was. Please give some consideration to why this would be the case. My friends, the universe, and life itself, moves forward.
Do we only see what we are able to see?
The answer here is mostly yes. What we must understand is that what we are currently able to see will change. This is a good and practical place to begin. Our perception of reality now becomes one of opportunity, an opportunity for growth. We see what is.
Do we only see what we would like to see?
The answer here, hopefully in the very near future, is absolutely yes! We need to be very mindful, however, of the trap of creating “rose colored glasses”. I know, it looks really good at first, but this kind of perception will lead to continued disappointment and eventual failure. Again, we mean well, but we need to be realistic in our approach. There is both good and bad in every experience, in ourselves, and in all others. In order to fully engage with the creative process, then, the past must be over, and the present must be accepted. This is how we see what we would like to see.
Let go of what was
Accept what is
Let creation begin!
All my love and support, be well